1. You are still the main point of reference. You still think its all about you! and what you do! instead of Christ and what Christ has already done for you !
If you find your self begging God to forgive you, bless you,to give you a clean heart
but a new heart. Ezk 11:19 Hebrews 8:10 . Not only that you are complete in Christ and have been filled with the fullness of God. Col 2:9-10.. You are not a poor, desperate, needy christian , under grace you are extremely full of God! There is now nothing missing or lacking in your life!
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.